Very timely as I prepare to leave for China.
Reconciliation • Affirmation • Farewell • Think Destination
In their landmark book Third Culture Kids: Growing Up Among Worlds, the authors Dave Pollock and Ruth Van Reken have a chapter devoted to transition and dealing with leaving one place and starting in a new one. The chapter is a constructive and practical look at leaving well, at closure, at saying our goodbyes in peace. While transitions are never easy there are concrete steps we can take to make them as smooth as possible, always bearing in mind that no matter how well we prepare some situations will arise that are completely out of our control. The authors suggest four steps that make up the acronym RAFT. They are these: reconciliation, affirmation, farewell, think destination.
Reconciliation is the first step in building a RAFT. I’ve written before that I believe it is important to leave in peace, that when we…
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